I am very confused in life?

I have been in a situation similar to yours. It was a hard time and I was probably the least happy I have ever been. I was home with my mother every day and had essentially dropped out of school. She would come into my room every few minutes to boss me and nag me until the point we no longer had a relationship. I finally decided instead of constantly fighting with my mother I would try to please her by doing whatever she asked of me. It wasn't easy and wasn't something I could do forever, but it saved my sanity and really helped my relationship with my mom. That may not be what you wanted to hear, but it really helped me so I thought I'd share. After feeling that I was up and moving she ran out of things to bug me about and I had more space. In the end I moved out and got on with my life and was happy to be rid of her constant nagging, but at the same time, I loved her and would miss her, which is more than before.